Wednesday, February 26, 2020

Death

I have been thinking of death lately. No, I am not pessimistic but every one of us will eventually die. I am just thinking what and how should I (or collectively as a family unit) plan for my death. Thinking out loud, these are just some of the topics I was pondering.

Death > As in the moment I die (I hope I die in my sleep, so my family can save money!)

Mourning > I hope my family has fully assimilated the Buddhist values and not mourn too much for me. Life is impermanent after all. And I will be back. Sooner or later.

Garment > Maybe something simple. I am going to become compost anyway!

Body > I heard you need to embalm my full body? No?

Human Organ Transplant Act (HOTA) > If I am not mistaken, this is a mandatory enrollment scheme by Singapore. But whatever, take anything you want, if it's still functional.

Medical (Therapy, Education and Research) Act > Seriously, I do not exactly know what's the difference between this Medical Act as compared to the previous Act.

Portrait > That is assuming if I want my family to conduct a wake for me. It doesn't really make sense to me. What are they going to do with my picture after that?

Coffin > I find this to be a waste of money based on the assumption that it is going to be burnt anyway. There you go, another environment impact on mother earth.

Wake > I heard the minimum is 3 days and I seriously do not want my family to be too bothered over this. Why lose sleep over one death?

White Gold > Maybe my family can set up a donation link to one of our preferred charity organizations. Maybe, let's see.

Burial > Impossible in Singapore, and I also think it's not environmentally friendly.

Cremation > Highly possible, unless some smart alec can suggest otherwise.

Compost > This is my wish that Singapore can implement body composting into a tree.

Time > I hope I can save my family and friends some time, so maybe my immediate family can just post that I die and the details online. We are going digital these days, right?

Environment > This is my ultimate wish. Use less resources on my death please!

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